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EVEN MORE Heartbreaking Stories

We want all adoptive parents to see just how many people have TRUE “heartbreaking stories” so they stop believing everything CPS says and maybe contact your adopted child’s “bio parents” SO THEIR HEARTS STOP HURTING SO BAD THEY FEEL LIKE DYING!

SO PLEASE, IF CPS HAS RAILROADED YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN JUVENILE DEPENDENCY COURT FILL OUT THIS FORM SO THEY CAN SEE HOW MANY PEOPLE THEY ARE DOING THIS TO AND MAYBE THEY WILL WAKE UP!

IF CPS:

IS FALSELY ACCUSING YOU OF CHILD ABUSE OR NEGLECT AND GETTING AWAY WITH FALSIFYING EVIDENCE

COMMITTED PERJURY (LIED IN THEIR REPORTS OR DURING QUESTIONING AT A HEARING)

IS DRUGGING YOUR CHILD WITH PSYCHOTROPIC DRUGS WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION AND AGAINST YOUR WISHES (SO THEY DON’T TELL EVERYONE WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON IN THE FOSTER HOME)

IS DENYING YOU AND/OR YOUR FAMILY VISITATION

FAILING TO ASSESS FAMILY MEMBERS FOR PLACEMENT

HAS APPROVED FAMILY FOR PLACEMENT BUT REFUSE TO PLACE YOU CHILD WITH THEM

DISOBEY COURT ORDERS BUT HOLD YOU IN CONTEMPT IF YOU DO IT

GAVE CUSTODY OF YOUR CHILD TO THE ABUSIVE PARENT/RELATIVE

MAKE YOU JUMP THROUGH ALL THEIR HOOPS ONLY TO TERMINATE YOUR SERVICES

PAID FOR A PSYCHOLOGICAL EVALUATION THAT IS FULL OF LIES

FAILED TO REMOVE A CHILD IN YOUR FAMILY DESPITE LEGITIMATE REPORTS OF ABUSE AND THAT CHILD WAS SEVERELY ABUSED, BEATEN OR DIED

 

9 responses to “EVEN MORE Heartbreaking Stories

  1. puremadangel

    March 25, 2014 at 12:01 am

    I’m a former foster child. I had suffered abuse at home with my step dad. I stood up to my abuser and asked for the help of child protective services. He confessed and was convicted for his crime and I was placed in foster care. Even though my step dad was the criminal he was released years before I was. Foster care had become such an abusive prison for me I finally ran away, homeless out on the streets, to young to work and no where to go.

    Not only do I have physical scars from the abuse I received in foster care but some days I still cry from the type of mental maltreatment I received at the hands of my supposed protectors. Id come a long way since foster care. I had worked full time and went to school at night to finish high school and continue further in my education to become a surgical dental assistant. Later I changed my career path and began working for scholastic books. I refused to allow cps, my therapist, and the foster parents opinions to control who I would become or to limit my future. (I was lucky to be stubborn and rebellious)

    Here recently ive had a great oppertunity to become connected to other former foster children, and we each share our stories with eachother and give eachother support. But I started to notice something. The opinions and ordeals each former foster child had faced in foster care seemed to echo the same opinion or same unacceptable situation when thrown into foster care. For example.

    An ex foster child Said something recently that had caught my attention. She said,” one thing that bothers me is society says parents who use drugs, abuse their kids,neglects them, and many more things aren’t good enough to be parents and forcefully removes the children. And this very same society looks the other way when we’re abused in foster care,moved several times, remain in limbo for years without any stability. We go years if not forever waiting to be adopted by these people in the society but they go adopt overseas. We get dumped out on the street and left to survive like animals when we age out of the system with absolutely nothing. Society doesn’t care what happens after we leave our unfit parents. When in some cases the unfit parents are 100% better than the numerous foster homes who have been checked out by the state and approved. Just because we leave our unfit parents doesn’t mean we live happily ever after.”

    Here are some numbers found on wikpidia that support this former foster child’s statement.

    Maltreatment per 100,000 US children. CPS. Parents. Physical Abuse. 160. 59 Sexual Abuse. 112. 13 Neglect. 410. 241 Medical Neglect. 14. 12 Fatalities. 6.4. 1.5

    I’ve also had an ex foster child contact me wondering why foster kids are treated so badly and no one pays attention. His reasoning.. his temporary foster parent had run him over with her truck. He was pronounced dead but then had finally been revived. He sued the state for this and somehow only ended up with $40 thousand dollars and mass long term pain (yeah his court appointed lawyer received the bulk of the money) and he also has many bills from the doctors him and his bio mother are obligated to pay. ( I can understand his frustrations)

    I’ve been reading many ex foster kids stories (including having my own) and what I find is more atrocities after they were removed then what they experience at home. And I can not help but wonder why this agency has made such great leaps and bounds on how to manipulate ,maneuver through the law, and perfect how to remove children but they themselves have no idea how to raise children. They have spent millions upon million each year for over 30 or 40 years on these state run agencies yet in general all they have produced is abused and neglected children who go on to struggle in society.

    Look at these statistics copied from children’s rights.org

    12-30 percent struggled with homelessness

    40-63 percent did not complete high school

    25-55 percent were unemployed; those employed had average earnings below the poverty level, and only 38 percent of those employed were still working after one year

    30-62 percent had trouble accessing health care due to inadequate finances or lack of insurance

    32-40 percent were forced to rely on some form of public assistance and 50 percent experienced extreme financial hardship

    31-42 percent had been arrested

    18-26 percent were incarcerated

    40-60 percent of the young women were pregnant within 12-18 months of leaving foster care.

    Nancy Schaefer already further summarized all of this summary as “The National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect in 1998 reported that six times :as many children died in foster care than in the general public and that once removed to official “safety”, these children are far more likely to :suffer abuse, including sexual molestation than in the general population. Think what that number is today ten years later!” Senator nancy Schaefer reported

    “that poor parents very often are targeted to lose their children because they do not have the where-with-all to hire lawyers and fight the system. Being poor does not mean you are not a good parent or that you do not love your child, or that your child should be removed and placed with strangers; that all parents are capable of making mistakes and that making a mistake does not mean your children are to be removed from the home. Even if the home is not perfect, it is home; and that’s where a child is the safest and where he or she wants to be, with family;

    I’ve also read along countless ex foster children’s stories of how they had been medicated for on thing after another and even witnessed an adopted child so overly medicated he could not control himself. Thankfully after talking to his adoptive parents they agreed to slowly back him off of the 10 medications he was on. (He spent a lot of time in my home during this) he has calmed down greatly and has now been able to focus and excel in school.

    Some ex foster kids talk about the long term effects these medications have caused them even long after they finally gotten off of the drugs. And some must continue taking different types of meds to help them deal with the after effects of the medications forced upon them in foster care (all in the guise of their best interest) Here’s one former foster child’s statement of what she had been through and how the medications affected her.

    “I was living in Maryville Tennessee and was 14 years old. I was depressed but i was a really quiet kid and a laid back type. These folks decided to start me on meds for my depression (a little red pill that i don’t know what it was) shortly after, i noticed i was feeling anxious and nervous. Then i noticed that i started having a short fuse when it came to my temper and it was more difficult to calm down. I told the group home owner this but she wouldn’t have me taken off the meds. I started spitting the meds into a paper dixie cup they would give me water in to take my meds and crush the cup so no one saw. I started to feel normal again, i did that for a month before i was ratted out by another kid. Any way they took me to a doctor that put me on paxil. The night they gave me that stuff, i was wired for sound and tried to play sumo wrestling with my roomate donelle.. The med made me constipated and i felt overly psycho, again, no one would listen to me asking to be taken off the meds.

    I also noticed i had more issues than usual on concentrating on my school work and i started getting mean to others.. Really mean as in hitting folks and yelling, it was like i was losing control.. I found myself withdrawing because of it and crying my eyes out at every turn. That’s the same year i started having panic episodes. I one day decided to ditch school and just go walking.. I was told that i cussed out all of the group home staff but i do not remember it… Eric blankenship could tell you a lot about that. I was picked up by the police and taken back to the group home but then i was moved to a teen psych ward

    There at the psych ward they gave me a higher dose of paxil and added milloril to my meds and some pill they were telling me was a vitamin but I’m sure it was a tranquilizer because not long after taking it, i could barely hold my head up..

    This went on for a month solid until a guy caseworker showed up to take me to my next placement. I was on those meds from foster home to foster home then one day i was taken to an all girl group home in Knoxville Tennessee where shortly after i was adruptly changed from the paxil and millorill, to prozac and trazedone.. The first time they gave me the prozac, i was 15 years old and was being given 3 prozac a day and my head always felt like i had a chunk of lead tied to it and schooling was hard because it was a new place and i felt crazy out of my head and just hated everyone and everything.

    I felt as if my mind was working overtime and i was suicidal because i could not calm down and in that same place i was fondeled by one of the men staff workers when we went on a trip to the university of tennessee race track. I would scream in the night in my sleep and i would be so nervous every day. I got defiant with the staff and would cuss this one lady in particular named deiadra.. She was a reasonably nice person but i got to where nothing mattered.

    Till this very day, i am a nervous type person and i still have the panic episodes that started as a teenager, i have a very hard time coming down from any emotion whether it be anger, anxiety, joy, depression, fear etc. i know it was because of the meds because prior to the meds, i was able to keep my emotions in check. I’m angry that this has to be this way with me but this crap forever changed me… Along with all the being passed around like a dooby.. It,all has an effect on me that,will never be normal again. I still consider myself a glitch ”

    Facts About Aging Out — Children’s Rights http://www.childrensrights.org

    Child Protective Services – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia en.wikipedia.org/…/Child_ Protective_Ser.

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  3. Rosie Vincent

    May 30, 2014 at 8:09 am

    Please come join me at Riverside CA county court house to protest for change! on June 13, lets be heard! my daughter in law had the same judge room 103 in Murrieta court room! and this has to stop and people need to be aware of what is going on!

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  4. Lori Joan O'Connell

    January 9, 2015 at 12:26 pm

    We need to, and quicklupy. There is really no social awareness about these.cases. When you share your story with others, they don’t believe you and they quickly remove you from their lives.

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  5. Randolph Wright

    February 18, 2015 at 9:20 pm

    I Randolph Wright reside at 333 East 150th street, Bronx New York 10451. I am writing you this letter to resolve this case me not appearing at the fair hearing on 2/10/09 which They defaulted.me. I was told not to come in on that day, by my Family Attorney Queens Court. Terrence Worms 646-408-8561. I was accused off sexual abusing my daughter. The Mother Anna Boscarello of my Children, and foster parent Odell Lewis and A C S Jewel Skeete C P S worker, and Jacqueline Ashicraft lied on me to. I tended a meeting with Jewel Skeete and Jacqueline Ashicraft on 2007 told them that I did not sexual abuse my daughter. Jewel Skeete lied in court. The Decision SH#50195 Feb 10, 2009. Ruth Yashpan representative said reports to. The S C R Report# 21593184 On March 14, 2004 It was not mailed to me also was false. The allegation of sexual abuse started dated August 31, 2007 which started, so why would they send me on March 14, 2004 that was false. On Nov 18, 2010 letter said on May 14, 2008 I attended the initial appearance I will send you a copy. My Family Attorney Queens Terrence Worms did not to go to the hearing also he did not write it but he told me not to go to the hearing. I have No thanks giving or Christmas seen 8, 31, 2007 A lie is a lie, wrong is wrong. My daughter is growing up with out a good father role, why is it that she is growing up with this lie. It has to shop now. I did not sexual abused her and my sons. This is not a laughing matter. I can’t get a job with children or Daycare. I will go to the News. I have an attorney. I filed A Complaint on Terrence J. Worms twist. I will send you. I am writing the President United States also. I would need a fair hearing on new information base on my case ID: 21593184. I did not sexual abused my daughter, Why’ would I do that, meanwhile am protecting my son from being sexual abused in school doing those times. So why would I sexual abuse my daughter. I want is a fair chance the court is not allowing. I want my name cleared from the State Central Register Section 422(7) of the Social Services Law allows. This Supervising Judge Joho F. Udochi said not at this time that not right. This affects the life and my children. I need my case over turn. Thank you. In God we trust.

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  6. sheila Norris

    October 4, 2015 at 7:23 am

    My son has been in foothills academy in Clinton co ky for a month.and has been assaulted by a staff member as well as another child.woth no help fromthem or case woworker. His custody level was not even high enough to be placed there.his case worker bumped him up.

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  7. Katie

    November 25, 2015 at 12:25 am

    I was in foster care from 1 yrs old to 9 yrs old in many different homes . I was lied to about situations of my other 4 siblings wereabouts my two sisters were being molested by an adult male who as the son of the foster parents and when confronted the parents flipped out and called them lying slurs. I watched my other siblings being abused and I was molested by the kids of 3 foster parents it’s sick it’s a lot of pain you don’t need on top of the pain you go through prior to it. It would be nice to see dcfs do something right

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  8. Jennifer Whitake

    March 24, 2016 at 7:08 am

    My 6 children were removed from my home on 10/28/14 the worse day of my life. And then comes the living nightmare I’m still trying to fight but don’t know how now. My children are looking faith in me someone please help me..

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